The last couple of months have been ‘interesting,’ the energies, I mean. Even the ocean was unlike anything I’d seen while living here. The waves were loud and massive—I could hear them from inside my house, sounding as if a wall was crashing down.
I have been busy with bars sessions and consults.
I witnessed something I thought only happens in the movies. A couple was planning a wedding on a Wednesday, went to see a house to buy on Saturday, and broke up on the following Tuesday. It was a passionate love…
I heard a side of that, and it was enlightening quite a bit, how ingrained people are into their drama and trauma; they’ll bring it into the relationships, especially if they aren’t working on it or aren’t aware of it, and I am not talking about psychologists and/or psychiatrists. He did have one. Pay them if you feel like it, but ask yourself afterwards, are you feeling better or worse? Very simple tool to know if that’s for you.
Every time I see my friend coming back from her session with the psychologist, she is unhappier. She’s been treated like a child, a la, “What do you know about relationships?” She is nearly 60; I am sure she knows a few things or what she wants. People have been incapacitated, distanced from their own knowing. Disempowering. My childhood friend is one, and reading here, you can be and do different. It’s all about choice, and perhaps you do.
I can see it’s hard to be honest with yourself if you are in love, over the hills in love; you just ignore it all. I had not heard of such emotional abuse, especially from a male person (meanness is a feminine trait). That opened my eyes to many signs…that I couldn’t recognise before. I have been lucky enough not to directly experience it, although I have been abused a lot by women in my life. Men normally do not do that; manly men do not. On the other hand, women have been demanding men to woman up…so that’s the consequence and vicious circle. Or…how can it get better now? What else is possible? What would it take to change that?
Everything she had done over the couple of years they were together was turned into wrongness. He projected his twisted perceptions all on her. She is a very caring human being; she is an empath, and she can anticipate people’s needs, and she did, and that’s what she got. It’s sad; people need help…especially the ones who can’t recognise genuine goodwill in others anymore.
How much more suffering is needed before it can happen? It’s a choice as well, if you are aware, you’re creating it (suffering)…you can change it. Ps Why? Isn’t the question to ask here.
The other couple is in the ‘I need space zone’, and it’s not looking promising. She moved to another country for the time being.
If you have been experiencing something similar recently:
- Do not go into wrongness of you, ala how did I let it happen or didn’t see it coming
- Do not make wrong everything that you experienced, there sure were moments to cherish
- You are not wrong, you never were
- Let the tears the pity flow through you – cry or breath or sweat it out
- Care for your self, be kind, you still have You and everything is possible!
‘…allow yourself to gently close chapters, knowing that each ending you accept clears the way for the fresh start that awaits. The wisdom you have gathered during this cycle will guide you into the next with sharper insight and renewed purpose.
Here is a YouTube video; that beautiful lady jumps around with the topics about and around different kinds of relationships, just like I do, but I am sure you can get the point.
On a different note.
I started a coherence course recently, not for more information but for the space to be in. The information has also been interesting, though, as a lot that I’ve been talking about has already been backed up by science, after all. It relates to Joe Dispenza’s work. Fe “Your heart sends 9 times more signals to your brain than your brain sends to your heart.” How cool, and wow, all the places where we have been ignoring our hearts…
I did the 5-day intro class, and then someone who thinks it’s the best modality to share around sponsored the rest of the 3 months for me. I was speechless; I still am. I didn’t know people do that, and I do not know who did that or if they know they did that for me, or was it random…? However, I can’t recall if I have ever given anything just like that. Thanks, Universe! Love that! Can I have A. Hicks’s 7-day cruise ship retreat, please? Just for the fun of it!
The ‘work’ involves many tune-ins with your heart-brain during the day; since day one it changed my sleeping pattern. Nothing ever has done that; I have slept a little since I was 17 years old, and although I started to sleep better in Australia, I still was up very early in the morning. Now I go to sleep later and wake up later, more like a ‘normal’ person; it’s so weird. I have been more emotional; a random singing competition can bring tears into my eyes, but my guess is it’s a release and will pass. I wonder what else is possible if that has only happened with 2 weeks.
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Music, I wanted to post that song on International Women’s Day but went along with societal conditioning and didn’t do it because of his violent behaviours in the past. Truth is nothing happens in the vacuum. Not to misunderstand here! It’s not about justification, far from it. More of that someday, maybe. Once you learn the root cause, you start to understand/see beyond.
However, where are his songs coming from? He has so many new songs this year…. I haven’t researched whether he writes these himself or has a team for it.
Generally it’s a great time to change and to create, go my creatives!💚💚💚