When is the right time to say I love you?
I recently saw a video on YouTube from the famous YouTuber, not a very aware person talking to his usually famous guests, this time with the relationship expert. She told him about a ‘horrific’ client story: how he went for a date with a lady, said, ‘I love you,’ and she said, ‘Great, thank you!’
See, the truth is if you feel like you’re losing anything by saying that, do not say it; you’re not ready, or you simply do not have love for that person. It is something else.
If you feel like you’re losing anything by saying that it’s your ego, it’s not love.
If you are able to be mean to that person, it’s not love, etc. If you do not have respect for that person, it’s not love.
If you do love them, then you do not care if they say it right back to you, simple. You’re ready to go with the flow, be the space and see if it leads you to something greater. Willing to step into unknown.
The right time is when you want to share it without knowing if you’re getting anything back or even without knowing what love is for you, which is unlikely.
If you already have the loving in your life, then you probably have discovered that it’s not one thing; it has layers and layers and layers that will reveal themselves to you if you choose to stay long enough.
Share your love; you have more than plenty!
Celebrate if you’re in it or celebrate ahead that you’re going to be in it!
And what if you do not have to be chosen; You have to choose! Read that again! And again, and how’s that?
More on the topic:
Something for everyone: inspo for the ones that are coupled up and even more for the ones looking for clarity about how or what their dream love is going to look like.
I am going to ‘do’ less of the movies I have to keep my eyes and/or ears covered half the time. Although it seems my Sydney gang loved my movie choices, it expanded after that post exponentially. lol I discovered 3 of the series had the same producer…very cool.
However, ‘Shrinking’ has started again, so if you need a brain break, or you’re sad sacking, then it helps out. The first seasons were actually a lot more brainless if you haven’t seen these start from there.
A song: It came from an unexpected source, lol. So I even watched the movie after seeing that unofficial music video.
Secondly, the video where Matt Frazer has a discussion with his wife is insightful!