Photo: Came back from Sydney on last Monday, Sydney. Why so serious? Like another country. I didn’t have much time to have fun in Sydney; I always visit for a seminar or class, except for Coldplay’s concert, but I plan to come back for fun one day.
Understanding Men and Women: Forgiving Our Fathers, Mothers and Ourselves
On Thursday at the markets, my returning client started talking about his neighbour, whom he is very worried about, a young man who seems to have relationship & anger issues. I said, ‘No wonder I see young men are repressed here,’ and he got such relief from that he couldn’t believe I said that. He also has a son who is in his thirties. He said you’re one in a million; I said I actually am. The population of my birth country is about one million! 🙂
Here it seems the gender roles have been somewhat swapped; men are waiting for women to approach them. That’s different than the rest of the world (over generalisation), and it’s against nature. Although in a way it’s a woman who moves first, but it’s in a thought, energetic, emotional level; man is a physical action, picking it up. But I can see how it’s been created, where it’s coming from or why.
I also said to him, ‘But your generation is on the other side of the spectrum, overly eager!’ He agreed to that too. Younger generations of men and women are now paying the price for the mistakes of those before them.
I did compliment a young woman on YouTube because she was beautiful, and she got upset about it. It was genuine from a woman to another woman. I mean, how should men navigate this reality then?
He is a man about 68 years old. He said he has had 3 doors in his life – one in New Zealand, one in California and one in Australia. These doors were marriages actually. He has had an interesting life, and he is very open, in a way a bit too open, taking all the world’s problems as his own like a sponge. Worrying about his neighbour is a good example of that.
I know the below sounds like a para from the Bible and bit too black & white, but there’s truth in it. All the books consist of topics around men & women that help us understand each other. The conflict between men & women today is consequence not the root cause.
‘We need to forgive our fathers for not knowing how to be strong-willed men within themselves and to support their wives as a man’s duty requires. If you know your grandmothers and grandfathers, then you can understand why your mother and father are the way they are.
Forgive your grandmothers and grandfathers for not knowing how to fulfil their gender roles, and thereby making life more difficult for themselves as well as for their future generations.
You do understand that this is how humanity learns.’ (Part 2, Page 372).
What else is possible, we haven’t considered possible with it?
All the empaths out there learn to set your energetic boundaries (not cutting anything out but just changing your perspective) and remember worrying about someone or pitying isn’t helping them but making it worse. Instead, send them good thoughts and love, and wish them luck that helps. Coming from the biggest worrier/ex-worrier in the world.
Why Do Your Knees Hurt? The Emotional Root Cause Behind Knee Pain
From different sources, knees have come to my attention, which brought us to the book reading once again. If anyone is wanting to look into the root cause of it, send them here. I used to have crackling knees in my twenties, despite of a lots of exercise, gym and yoga but it has completely changed/disappeared. Change your perspective, change your health.
Part III
Aversion – an impediment to movement.
The knees express the principles of how we progress in life.
The knees show how we force our way forward with our feelings.
A person who moves forward peacefully, with kindness and balance are healthy.
The knees of a person who moves forward through fighting and deception break down.
The knees of a person who moves forward by force develop problems / pain.
The sadness of the ‘loser’ causes fluid to form in the knee.
The sadness of the avenger causes blood to form in the knee. (See Book II, p. 351.)
Part IV
Every time you become angry because you did not get what you wanted; it makes your knees more painful.
There is spiritual, emotional and physical progress, but as long as we are only capable of drawing conclusions from physical suffering, it (going forward with resentment or anger) manifests in the physical knees.
As soon as dissatisfaction arises, meaning as our attitude towards our progress in life becomes negative, the knees begin to become painful.
Warning signals knees begin to develop problems. These are:
- cracking of the knees,
- buckling of the knees,
- jerking of the knees, and
- snapping of the knees.
When speaking about the knees, we cannot overlook the concept of warm-heartedness. Their knees are healthy.
A knowledgeable person is compassionate, and their knees do not buckle from weakness, because they do not pity anyone or anything.
The desire to be good to everyone is like glue that sticks the past and the future together, causing the knees to crack and chew each time the person moving forward takes a longer step towards the future.
So, do you understand how good sick knees are? What it’s teaching you?
The buckling of the knees is a wave of hopelessness connected with moving forward in life, which arises when a person becomes afraid and begins to doubt their progress in life.
Every surge of weakness in the knees shows that a person is having a moment of weakness, when they temporarily lose faith in themselves and, with it, in moving forward.
A person with weak knees is forced to stay still and reflect on their actions, in order to understand what is needed and what is not, so as not to rush around unnecessarily.
Thus, knee problems are always connected with the heart.
The first signs of the knees buckling always appear when going down stairs or a hill, or when stepping down to a lower level.
Knee jerking is a surge of fear of becoming stuck, connected with moving forward in life.
Knee snapping is like whipping a wooden horse that has stopped moving to make it move.
Some people’s knees snap so loudly that it startles others.
In the case of snapping knees, the knee joint is excessively dry.
If your knees have an illness that I have not talked about, then think further for yourself.
Example:
The more aggressive such a person is, and the more they want to subjugate others, the more crooked their knees become.
The result is that the person’s knees become bent backwards.
The more miserly a person is, the more crooked the knees.
The more property is pointlessly squandered to demonstrate arrogant superiority the angrier the person becomes, and the more their knees hurt.
But if economic balance is achieved through stinginess, the economy may begin to decline, and the narrowing of the joint spaces in the knees = sinking expresses anger associated with an economic downturn.’
Viilma, L. (n.d.) A Teaching of Survival: A Book of Survival, Parts 3–4, pp. Translation and editorial adaptation by R. Terreping.
Forgive yourself; you’ve created this. It’s your body teaching you to learn life lessons.
Ask forgiveness from your body.
Ask forgiveness from others if they’re involved.
Move forward in love & light instead.
You are beautiful! Heal your thoughts, heal your body.
Disclaimer:
This content is shared for educational and inspirational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please consult your healthcare professional if you have any concerns about your health or well-being.
Music: It’s been too long in my air pods; usually after sharing, I move forward. 🙂