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Beyond Force: Relax, Connect, and Dream Your Reality into Being

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Photo: How did I get here? I wasn’t really manifesting. About a year ago I was wholeheartedly wondering what it would be like to live in such a peace. That is not an action or even a manifestation; that wonder comes from relaxation, from the heart.

Now, I need saving from the retirement home I moved to. 🙂 I’m so not done with life and living, and the energy here is just… retired! lol

I’ve been trying to convince myself that it’s something new and a level of relaxation, and something different could be born, but I enjoy movement around me, not that I need to move much myself; only sometimes to go and join the crowds, which inspires and maybe even drives me. Perhaps I’m creating from the chaos surrounding me, and not too close at the same time.

Or, if I could fly myself anywhere in the world after every fortnight, that would do as well. What choice is available here that I haven’t realized that I have?

A tip for the locals who want to move to places that are ‘hard to access’: for starters do something that no one wants to do or have a skill that’s in shortage or of course have your own business. Here in Australia is a skill shortage; the list is long; take your pick. In the distant future all these ‘desktop jobs’ will die out, and you have to get one anyway. Btw, energy-wise on the coast, no one really wants you here; (not significant but just FYI). In the city, it is more like we are in this s…together attitude, that is a lot kinder and friendlier (surprise surprise!), which is not bad at all!

At the same time, I have made some very dear friends here, so it’s not all blue, and I have had more friends coming to visit in 6 months than in the previous 4 years in the city. Location, location, location 🙂

I’m grateful this year is over, sincerely! Although it’s been the price of growth.

I personally do not want to harden up, toughen up, push through, or man up because the time of Force is gone, past, done, and dead. Now is the space for something so much greater than that.

Everything you’re living, you have chosen, so what can you choose now, and how will that look like? …Exciting?!

I noticed this year that people who do not believe in anything else than what they think is real, aka this reality, are the unhappiest.

I noticed long ago that people who consider themselves smart—textbook smart or even intellectually intelligent, much like AI (though not emotionally)—often seem to be the unhappiest. This is usually because they are too rigid, judgemental, clinging to outdated routines or expectations.

So, if you think you’re lacking these things above, then you’re actually blessed; you have things in you waiting to be emerged. You didn’t come here to prove your betterness by knowing the textbook by heart. You’re actually the one who will do well, as you are wise, an out-of-the-box thinker, a creator, trust it! The next year will be harder for the rational ones; well, it’s always been easier for the ones who see a bigger picture. Living in a black-and-white world is pretty, well, gray. That’s why we’re here—to add colours to lives of ours and possibly others.

Start appreciating yourself; let your heart lead. Get connected to it.

So why are you here? Don’t you have a Christmas event or somewhere to be? 🙂 I went to one on the 25th; there were 10 kids under 7 years old, fun! Children know fun and joy and love and cake and ice cream and water bombs etc.

Thank you for choosing to be here, thank you for choosing to have a look into different perspectives, and thank you for choosing You even if it’s only for a little bit. Just a reminder: no need to agree with anything here; everything that I’m writing is here to be the invitation for you to find out your own knowing, perception, and truths. However, go back and read these later; as time goes by, your views will change.

What if you came here to be something different!? Without the fear of being separated from everyone. You will be not! Once you’re connected to yourself, you will connect with people more in your wavelength. No walking on eggshells anymore, no more adjusting, justifying, or proving.  Stop trying to fit in; it’s not necessary. You know a lot more than you know that you know.

Wishing you all that your new basis of your life is a happy, joyous you. How to get that? Get into you, get connected, get into being you from where that life can emerge.

How do you know if you have you?

1. You’re not looking into outside sources, e.g., scrolling endlessly in social media; you feel the urge to create something instead.

2. You feel comfortable in your head; with your thoughts, you even like them at times.

3. You feel like you want to share your talent or your creations.

What would it be like to relax your dreams into reality?

Everything that doesn’t allow  that d&u.

Happy holidays!

Reena 🌞

I just finished watching ‘We Live in Time.’ It was heavy, teary most of the time. Must’ve been very hard for actors as well. Not a boys movie, or…depends on a boy 🙂 A song from there: I’m on your team.’ I actually saw Sampha in Brisbane at the beginning of this year!