Photo: Concert that turned out as my birthday present.
I was walking down the pathway when an elderly guy stepped aside of me and told me you have one pant sleeve up and one down. I said yes, I do… His questioning eyes and pouted mouth made me look for an explanation for him. I said I haven’t decided if I’m cold or warm yet, and then I started laughing. He looked deeply into my eyes and said in full seriousness, 😅’That’s odd’, too bad you can’t hear how I imitate him saying that. It sounds like an especially blocked nose ODD. ‘I’m sorry, Mr. I didn’t realize we had a specific attire for beach walks here!’ lol
I have these velour pants that are a size or two too big, that I’m wearing like that without giving too much thought about it. Like a little ‘bag lady’.
Reports from country life. That’s that.
On Saturday, I went to an seminar held by Dain Heer. He is one of the two creators of Access Consciousness and awesome Access Bars that I’m practicing. That was an intro night for the 3-day class that was already on, to my understanding. It wasn’t a big group, but the energy in the room was so much better than the last one I went to. So much less fight against energy, because sometimes people are coming to these events for the wrong reasons—to prove something. Well, that’s not that place. I missed his dirty jokes, these were ruled out, it seems. People are too sensitive, I have other explanation to that is too ego centred, that’s for another post.
He talked about a few things, and the topic of relationships kept coming up. He said a brilliant thing: people are waiting for a relationship to start creating their lives. It’s big; think about it! Sure thing, you’re not doing it! 🙂
I realised how much I had done all these singlehood years, and I also realised that once I gave it up, it turned up. Life started rolling the second I had decided to go to Australia (it was a true choice, without waiting or expecting anyone coming along), and a year later relationship turned up. Just when I had completely given up waiting for someone to ever come into my life. I was very committed to my decision, and my Australia plan stayed put. See, from the outside it seemed as my life started rolling once, I got into relationship but actually it wasn’t so, it was the opposite. My commitment to my life & living no matter what came first.
Think for a moment: What are you waiting for? Career, money, a holiday, or inheritance, love, change, or children to grow up? It’s a form of self-sabotage.
I have done it even later, waiting for miracles to turn up and for creators that are on a similar wave lane that would like to create with me. Like said before do it anyway, create anyway even if no one is coming along, just for the fun and love for it! It’s your expression of life and living.
There is a saying back in Europe: Self – made well-made 🙂
In terms of creating your life, really do not wait. Is there someone with you or not. It’s your time here and now; trust that you can have fun anyway, and if someone will join you, it’s double fun or triple fun or what else is possible?!
Do not wait; create! Ask: What can I do or be today to make it the best so far? Smile!:) See how your day will roll out! ✨✨✨ Even a cranky old man could be a contribution. 🙂
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Here is a listening for you; it’s sweet and short and packed with gems. Listen to it many times and notice if anything changes in your world.
Once you change your perspective, the sift in your reality starts appearing. Sometimes we do not notice the change, as it’s subtle. Perhaps you experience some lightness in you. That’s that!